I really dont get all the fuss over this ship. Its just a toy! I bought this for my son. I dont think it sends the wrong message. Boys play like this, heck even my twin girls enjoy this toys and the shark that comes with it. My kids play for hours with this and other sets we have and I would buy more in a heartbeat.
I really think people are far to hypersensitive to things these days, but thats fine if you dont buy the stuff it leaves more for me so thanks!